I think you just need to follow your heart on this one. Since you haven't seen her since the baby was born, maybe it would be good to stay in a Hotel until you get to know her better. Who knows, maybe by the second weekend, you will be staying in your parents home. I think it's wonderful that your parents let her stay at their home. Sorry you feel like your mom is treating her more like a daughter than you. I would talk to your mom about that. Hope the 2 weekends go well for everyone...
