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In the state we adopted from , Kansas, the bmom was not notified because she relinquished. The bfather was because he hadn't and it was his opportunity to appear. Ours is a semi- so we don't have the same level of communication you have, however I never mentioned it in my letters
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Happy mom to 2 daughters, one by birth the other by adoption
Adoption journey: homestudy completed 7/04, signed with facilitator 11/04, matched 12/04, daughter born 2/05, adoption final 4/05
Fost/Adopt journey: legal risk, preadoptive placement of V 10/08, state went to reuniting 1/09, V back w/family 7/09, state seeking custody again 11/09 - too late for us.
9/09 preadoptive match made from photolisting with boy T 7 y.o., will meet in person 10/09, placement 11/09
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