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We get the "oh how could his REAL mom give him away, hes just so cute". Like they are saying they could understand if he was not so cute. GRRR.
And the REAL mom thing, I am REAL. Its REALLY me that wipes his nose and bottom. Its REALLY me that is awake walking the floors when he is sick. Its REALLY me that is up before the sun every morning to make his breakfast.
Now our son does have a 1st mom or bmom. She isnt a drug dealer or on drugs. She is not a prostitute and she only voluntarily signed TPR because a judge was just about to do it anyway. She did not "give away" her child. She very lovingly placed him with his adoptive family because she knew he would be loved and cared for here.
Our son was not "abused" either. He is not "damaged", (grrrr) nor was he born with any drugs in his system.
We have heard them all and it doesnt make it any easier when its your own siblings/parents making the stupid comments...especially when you have spent many conversations educating them. Or trying to.
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