[celebratewewill]

ok, i'm so ahead of myself, and not even sure if the situation we are working with will ever pan out (long story), but this expectant mother SAYS she wants a semi-open relationship, but she seems to be very flaky (seems, imo). i am worried that she will not communicate with her child if this goes through, and i do not want my child to be hurt by this...and then i started worrying what if our second child's bparents are much more involved? i'm thinking of international adoption so the situations are different, but then i don't want our child to be alone in her experience as someone with cc parents and a cc sibling (if this is the one). i'm such a worrywart...what did you all decide to do, what do you struggle with if this is the case, any advice, things to consider?

tina