Hey there! COngratulations and welcome home!
I haven't read replies but I'm sure you have gotten some really good advice. Our son slept with his FM and at 27 months still sleeps with us. *hehe* So this is not experienced advice, just a thought.
I know they make bassinets for itty bitty ones that you can lay in the bed between you. When your daughter adjusts to the bassinet you can move it to the crib. Actually lay the bassinet within the crib. Hey, even better and if possible, put the crib in your room until she gets used to that. Step three would be to transition her to the crib itself and finally, step four, move the crib to her room.
I wish you best of luck with the adjustment. It's a huge effort to transition two little ones at once and I commend you. You will have much to offer future adoptive parents and I hope that you will share your experience(s) as you progress.
Hey! How about a pic of those beautiful babes!
