[Snugglebug]

I am so sorry that you don't have the support of your mother and sister, but it sounds like you know what is best for you and your immediate family. I read one of your posts that said you had started the adoption process before you were contacted by your cousin. The same thing happened to us! We have 3 boys and decided that we would try to adopt a little girl. Right after we filled out the initial paperwork we found out that our cousin had a baby and she was in foster care waiting for someone to pick her up! It was amazing, I don't think I had ever had such a CLEAR answer to my prayers before.

Have fun getting your nursery together and "nesting"!

I was wondering what part of CA you are in? We are in the Inland Empire area.