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We are now in Month three of the preadoption process. Both of us feel strongly that our boys need a strong spiritual foundation. Both of us have spiritual views that do not fit into any of the "mainstream" religions. We already swore off any religion that does not accept gays and lesbians, even if the local church does. I'm sorry. I will not give money to a local church while knowing that the religion as a whole does not want me, just my money. That wrote off a lot of religions off the top. Aftre shopping around we settled on an Unitarian church. It has been great. The boys love it. It has a strong education program, which was a must for us. Since we both said we are going to the church for the boys not us. We are looking forward to them growing up in this church.