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advice from a former foster child
If your husband is saying he wants to wait until you are 25, maybe it is more that he just wants to wait. You are young and presumably do not have a lot tying you down. Once you have kids, you will have A LOT more responsibilities and you will not be able to just go and do stuff like you might be able to do now. If he is holding back, I would not push him to move forward. I would find out WHY he is really holding back.
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A society in which adults are estranged from the world of children, and often from their own childhood, tends to hear children's speech only as a foreign language, or as a lie. Children have been treated as congenital fibbers, fakers and fantasisers.
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