I am so glad to see this post! We have recently thought that our DS (6 yrs old) has some attachment issues. We are working on those (have an upcoming eval with an attachment therapist), and I hope to really have a handle on it before we bring home his little sister.
I am actually a bit relieved now that we didn't bring home a baby before we realized what was going on.. Thank goodness for these Russian delays (who said that...? was that me...?

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So, I appreciate all the ideas and hope to see more!