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I can't even imagine what you are going through. We were matched in July 05 and the birthfather was not involved AT ALL until a week before the baby was born. He waited until the last day possible to file and contested the adoption before the baby was born. Despite meeting the birthmom and naming him, etc. we never saw him. She was forced to parent, as he took her to court to fight for 100% custody. And that was all we knew. We had no legal rights to get anymore involved. What made the disrupted adoption "final" was that in our state there is a certain amount of days the birthfather has to actually go to court and file (30 days). Since you had said that he has not followed through with any of that, do you know if there is a time frame that he has? Wish you well and I will pray for you.
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Jen
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