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I don't know about you, but I felt terribly guility for some of my emotions after we adopted the girls. Here we had gone and done everything under the sun to become parents, then when it finally happened I felt that perhaps I did not derserve to feel frustrated, lonely, overwhelmed, etc. I have said this before, my biggest regret in life was not getting help when I needed it. Whether it's a cleaning lady, or some medication to help you through this time. It is important for you to do what is necessary to be happy, and enjoy your time as a mother. Take care.
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Kendal
adopted twin girls Sept '01 from Pskov
adopted little boy April '05 from Pskov
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