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Wow, as a fellow Navy wife (who's dealt with several extended deployments) I can't begin to relate but I can sympathize. You're certainly in a tough bind. I hope you and your DH are able to reconcile, if that is what you both want. Even more than that I hope that he can accept this child as one of his own and not ask you to choose him or the child. I don't think you could ever have a healthy marriage choosing your child over your spouse or vice versa. As for the bio father, children born within marriage are presumed to be the child of the husband (in most states) unless a bio father steps up to claim paternity and pay support. I think that's probably all I should say. Hugs.
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Sad to be moving on... humbled by knowledge.
If we have been spared knowing this sin or that, it is the grace of God alone which has protected us, not any virtuous excellence of our own character.
--David C. Reardon
Last edited by sneezyone : 09-28-2005 at 11:17 AM.
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