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Old 09-28-2005, 09:59 AM
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I'm sorry, I don't have any suggestions and I don't think there can be any easy answers. Whatever decision you choose will hurt everyone involved to some degree. You need to decide what decision you can live with after making. Either way your children will be hurt now or when they are older and can understand what happened. Your relationship with your husband has been altered and your relationship with his best friend has too.
You also have damaged your own sense of self. Only God can tell you what you should do and now more than ever you should turn to him.
I just wanted you to have a response as most people won't know what to say in a situation like this and it may take some time for them to gather their thoughts. I am truly saddened that this has happened and I hope things can work out for you.
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