[blessedbybug]

Originally Posted by hollywoodlisa

We remain hopeful, optimistic and relentless in our dream to start a family. But at the same time, dautingly impatient for achieving this goal.

You definitely have the right idea when it comes to adopting. We have found that no matter what our struggle is/was with TTC/infertility, adoption was just as or dare I say, even harder than that road. Too many people think that it is easier. The good thing is that in the end, you most likely WILL end up with the family of your dreams and be thankful that you kept persevering through all the rough terrain. Reality is... adoption is born (no pun intended) out of crisis, which in turn, makes it messy. There are rarely ANY perfect solutions. Just know from someone who has been where you are, who holds her dream in her arms these days, and who hopes to add another miracle soon, that in the end, whatever road you choose, it will be worth it. Most definitely...

IMO, impatience is a virtue in adoption. It keeps you motivated to find the right path to building your family. We laugh in our house, because we know my lack of patience and relentless pursuit of opportunities for our family brought us to Bug... and we are blessed by it...

Hoping for the best for you, and if you would like, don't hesitate to PM...