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hi,
we adopted dd last july and were matched just before her birth. I think her bmom liked the fact that we were both working, though I've since stopped working and i'm now a stay at home mom. My profile mentioned nothing about quitting work, just that I intended to take a few weeks off. Turns out I had 6 weeks straight with dd, then went to work full time.
for bmom (and i'm just guessing here) the fact that her mom and dad both worked full time and were good parents (to four kids) meant she didn't see my working as a problem.
there will be bparents who will prefer working aparents, those that want a single parent working and the other staying home, etc. hard to predict, but there will be a match for you.
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-first time amom to dd, born 7/7/04
-placed in our arms by a very loving bmom 7/9/04
-bfather's rights terminated 9/7/04
-just connected with bdad!!! 2/9/05
-visited bfamilies for a week, awesome trip 6/05
-bfather signed legally binding open adoption
agreement 7/05
-finalized (woohoo!) 18th of November 2005
-Thinking about adoption #2!
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